Fun, relaxed nights for verified singles: no application needed. Grab a seat, meet some new people, and get a feel for The GenX Table.

Open Mixers are different from our curated tables. Guests are verified, not vetted, and seating isn’t hand-matched. Think of it as the easy way to say hello.

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Table Tours: GenX Edition · Speed Dating Mixer · Mon, Dec 7

Quick chats. Real sparks. Zero swiping.

Join us for an evening of speed dating at Brick House Restaurant & Lounge in downtown Lodi. You’ll mingle over an appetizer buffet, then sit down for a series of short one-on-one dates. When you hear the “ding,” it’s time to meet someone new.

Monday, December 7 · 6–8 pm
Brick House Restaurant & Lounge, 27 W Elm St, Lodi

Your $40 seat includes:
· Appetizer buffet
· A soft drink
· Wine from The Lucas Winery

Who it’s for: Single men and women, ages 45–64. Seats are limited to 7 men and 7 women to keep the room balanced.

No application needed. Open Mixers are for verified guests: please bring a valid photo ID to check-in. Looking for our fully vetted, curated tables? Apply at thegenxtable.com/application.

Cancellations & Refunds
· Changed your mind? Cancel within 3 business days of booking for a full refund.
· Cancel by Monday, November 30 for a refund, less the payment processing fee.
· After November 30, seats are non-refundable, but you may transfer your seat to a friend of the same gender, ages 45–64. Just email us their name before the night.
· No-shows are not refunded.
· We need a full table of 14 to hold the night. If we cancel or reschedule for any reason, your seat will move to our next date. Prefer a refund? Reply within 3 days and we’ll issue it in full.

Email cancel@thegenxtable.com to cancel or transfer.

$40.00

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A Typical Night

Every night is balanced: once the men’s or women’s seats fill, that side is sold out.

6:00 pm · Check in & mingle
Show your ID at the door, grab a drink, and enjoy the appetizers while everyone arrives.

6:30 pm · Let the dates begin
Take your seat for a series of short one-on-one conversations. When you hear the “ding,” it’s time to switch.

7:40 pm · Last call & linger
The rounds wrap up. Mingle, revisit a conversation you enjoyed, and say your goodbyes.

8:00 pm · The night wraps
Hit it off with someone? You’re welcome to keep the conversation going in the lounge.

Times are approximate and may vary by night. Verified means we confirm you are who you say you are with a valid photo ID; it doesn’t include the records check and screening call our Curated Tables require.